Saturday, January 01, 2011

nov/dec just zoomed away so quickly.

in our school days, every new year means something more to us. like we are closer to the exams or to the last yr of JC/uni. we are much more aware and concerned about it. now, it's just another year.. another new year.. oohh man, i feel so old!

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I was taking a train back from work or somewhere once and there's a couple sitting opposite me having the 'cold war'. the girl ignored the guy, no matter how he tried to get her attention. at one point, she took out her ipod/mp3 and pretended to sleep. he couldn't stand it and pulled her ear piece off. she snatched it and put them back on. they stood far apart when they were alighting.

it's not something uncommon. when the girls get angry/unhappy, they will either scream/curse their heads off or give the guy the silent treatment. no matter what, the girls are always right. many guys will agree to this. it's always them who are giving in.. 'coz girls always cry.

but sometimes, i wonder.. is it that difficult to sit down and talk it out.. tell the other party what you are unhappy about, what is driving you mad, what is causing you not to smile... leave the sarcasm and comparison aside. just say them out plainly with your true feelings. there's no point trying to hurt each other's feelings - you love each other, remember??

there are many times we put things off before we even try. theres a mental barrier in us that stops us from doing many things that we wanna do. we start imagining what will happen if we do/say something, how will others react, how will they think of me..

actually, thats two different issues. couples - pls learn to be honest with one another. communication helps. dont give the silent treatment, thinking the other part will understand what went wrong or what you really want.

for the wants vs mind issue - just be happy with what you are doing.

this entry is not leading to anywhere.. i just wanna talk to someone.. someone out at the greengreen grass...